Babyfur Public Behavior Guidelines v2.1:
General Guidelines:
When at a convention or other event, remember that you represent a large group of people who make up the Furry Fandom and, on a smaller scale, the Babyfur community.  While these guidelines aren't here to stop you from being yourself or enjoying your experience, you shouldn't use the event as a stage for your personal kink, or make unwilling participants out of other attendees for your own kicks.  Social mistakes at events, even small ones, tend to get exaggerated, perpetuate themselves for many years afterward and reflect poorly on the community and fandom as a whole.
No means NO! That goes for diaper changes, room visits, pictures, commissions, diapers, food, drink, etc.  At the very least ask first.  If you don't ask, the answer is always no.
Cleanliness Recommendations:
Practice good hygiene and keep your room and environs clean.  Daily showers, using soap, use of deodorants and a daily change of clothes while at a convention will go a long way to meeting social expectations in any setting.
If you wear diapers, be clean about it.  Defecation in ones diaper is not encouraged at conventions and events.  Use the toilet for these needs if you are physically able.  One should also pay attention to how wet one's diaper has become.  Change often enough that your diapers do not leak or give off offensive odors.
If you are staying the night and you know you sometimes wet the bed or are prone to leaking, pack along disposable, waterproof mattress pads.  Double bag all used diapers and dispose of them properly.  If using a trash bag to collect used diapers in your room, use an opaque bag and keep the weight of each bag manageable.  Waterproof mattress covers and/or garbage bags may also be acquired by contacting the hotel's front desk or event operations.  
Public Display & Regressive Behavior:
Be mindful of comfort levels of others around you and follow the event’s “Code of Conduct.” Running around hotel or convention spaces in a diaper, in naught but a onesie or other revealing article of clothing, wearing or using a pacifier and carrying baby bottle, is considered in poor taste.  Wearing a diaper under short-alls, overalls, sleepers and/or juvenile printed shirt and jeans and carrying a plush around the con is generally accepted. Bottom line, if you would be embarrassed wearing or doing something at a public event or venue in your home town, you probably shouldn't do it in public view at a convention or event elsewhere.
Advice on Art Commissions & Artists:
Not all artists draw Babyfur Artwork.  Don't be disappointed if an artist turns you down when you attempt to commission them to bring your idea or character to life.  Politely move on to another artist, and don't push the issue or otherwise make a scene.
Respect any copyrights that artists hold on their works. Do not distribute, sell, modify or infringe upon an artist’s work unless that artist has granted you their permission first.
Respect Rooms and Personal Property:
Open rooms and organized parties, at events and conventions, are the responsibility of the person the room is registered under.  It is expected that you, as a guest, conduct yourself appropriately and treat the room, the furs that inhabit it and their possessions with respect.  Know and follow the rules established by the room hosts and if payment or donations are asked for, contribute.  
Tipping Standards:
Daily Hotel Cleaning Staff Tip: $3 – $5, each day, for a normal room, 4 occupants; more for a suite.
Restaurant Tip: Equal to 15%-20% of the cost of your meal or the entire check. (20% min for groups ≥8.) 

These guidelines are a living document.  Questions, comments and suggestions on these or new guidelines are welcomed and encouraged.